星期三快乐！驼峰日，我们’re halfway there!
If 您’ve experienced any kind of rejection, 您 know that it’绝非易事。而且当工作中出现拒绝时，坦率地说，我们在这里花费了大部分时间，但不幸的是，有时有时会得到我们大部分的个人验证，这可能是吞噬的重重药丸！
然而它发生了，而且比我们更多’d like…被拒绝的项目建议书；季评乏善可陈，或者直截了当，毫不含糊“No”应我们要求参与该新实施的指导委员会的要求。轻描淡写，简单地拒绝“sucks”，专业拒绝就在那里“sucky”我们的万神殿’d rather forget…
那么，我们该怎么办？我们只是吮吸牙齿并在拒绝时p着嘴吗？这是否意味着我们惨遭失败，所有的希望都丧失了？或者，拒绝真的是重定向，更改和改进的最强大催化剂之一吗？一世’d say the latter:
1.使用拒绝作为“off course” signal: 如果您开车时GPS一直在说“you”re 当然”, wouldn’t 您 change directions? Well, the same goes for professional rejection. Instead of taking it personal, step outside of 您r ego and consider whether 您’ve just been going in the wrong direction. If what 您’ve been doing isn’t working, how can 您 change it so it does work? If 您’re going in the wrong direction, how can 您 get on the right path?
2. Face rejection and ask how 您 can improve: Once 您 acknowledge that 您’ve been heading in the wrong direction as related to a specific project, assignment or job, face the rejection even further by asking what 您 can do differently. What can I do to change this review rating? How can I get to a 10 from a 5? Ask, and 您 shall receive the feedback 您 need to take 您 to the next level…
3.现在付诸实践： Now is the time to apply the feedback 您’ve received earlier. Start over, but this time with the lessons and principles learnt from experience and by asking what works! Add the necessary improvements to 您r craft, career or job, and measure the results 您 get over time!
How are 您 dealing with professional rejection?